Monday, August 23, 2010

Guys advice on men?

I've met up with this guy twice now and he is realy nice but on both dates he hasn't even made any attempt to flirt with me or mentioned us getting it on and I would like to know why?Guys advice on men?
He could be a little reserved. There must be some attraction if he went out on a date with you twice. Think about it, if the first date was lame, why would he ask you out on another?





On the next date you should make the first move. Help get him out of his shell.Guys advice on men?
Maybe he's trying to figure out his next move. If the first date didn't answer all the questions he's asking himself, he probably thought a second date might. Basically, it sounds like he's interested in you, not so sure of how deep that interest runs, and doesn't want to mislead either you or himself. If he likes you, really likes, he'll become confident in that and make his next move. If he figures out that he isn't as into you as he originally thought, then no harm done...he didn't mislead you or ';play'; you. Sounds like he's playing it safe until he sorts out his feelings, that way nobody gets really hurt later on.
Because he's either shy, playing it incredibly slow, not able to ask you out coz he ain't got the balls downstairs, or he's just not interested in a relationship. You can get guys like that. ask him if you're so interested in what his intentions are. Maybe he just wants to be sweet.
He's probably sick of people putting him in the stereotype of how most guys 'only want one thing', so he's trying really hard to not be that. He probably really does like you, but is afraid to scare you off.
Maybe he doesn't want to come across as that is all he is after a quick shag. He should of payed u some sort of compliment though maybe he's just shy. He obviously likes u otherwise why would he go on a second date?
a)...prob playing hard to get.


b) he has no interest in your whatsover?





Could be neither of them things, but that's what first came to mind.
could be he is a gentleman

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