guys whats wrong with a woman who's sweet,cute,funny,smart and i'm not skinny you know i have a little more not really big but maby like a size 18 and guys always turn out to be just friends and nothing beyond that i mean does that sound like someone a guy would go for please give adviceGuys advice please asap?
Not all guys are as shallow as their reputation indicates. A guy could definately go for a girl like you. For me personally the only physical aspect a girl has to have, is a nice smile. Most so called good looking skinny girls have terrible stuck up personalities that make them flat out ugly to me. I'd much rather be with someone a bit bigger and a good personality.
I do have to say in all honesty many guys, and girls too, are really shallow when they are younger. I don't know how old you are, if you're still in high school it might be tougher finding a guy that wants to be more than friends, but trust me, when or if you're older and out of high school, most people grow out of this and finally start looking at people more for who they are rather than just what they look like.Guys advice please asap?
Look,you cant hate and get mad at a guy for not wanting you.
First of all,I GUARANTEE that there are guys out ther who like you,but YOU do not like them because of their appearance.
We cannot help what we find attractive and unattractive.
I will be friends with anybody. But for it to go beyond friendship,I want looks AND personality.
So although all of the traits that you mentioned above would be good for a guy like me,the size issue would stop me.
Im sorry,but 18 is too big for me.
Thumb me down all you want and call me shallow all you want,but NOBODY can help what they do and do not find attractive.
Everyone has the right to live THEIR life THEIR way and go for what THEY want.
Guys actually really like girls like that, it's just many of your guy friends probably do like you as more than a friend but are afraid. My crush is actually sounding a lot like you right now. I could almost believe that she is you. You just have to wait, eventually there will be a guy who is brave enough to say he likes you more than a friend.
Hey, sorry im not a guy but i had to answer this.
This time last year i was everyones mate... Im the same size and was in the same situation.. I was getting so pissed off with it... Oh yeah mel your such a good mate..
Now ive realised that size 18 is rather sexy and as soon as i realised it so did the blokes.... Im not a slapper at all but since i found my confidecne so many many text me and i go out with them on dates and stuff....
I never thought i could get the drop dead goreous male friends of mine... turns out they wants me and not the size 10 blondes i hang around with ... haha
good luck honey xxx
DONT LISTEN TO THEM
there aint nothing wrong with you AT ALL
its just not yur time for a guy to come in to your life
stop looking for it let it come to you unexpectedly
try flirting with the guys instead of hey buddy say hey boo or something like that
GOOD LUCK HUN!=)
well nothing is wrong with a girl that is sweet,cute,funny,smart and not skinny ive dated about 3 plus sized girls and i didnt care about looks they all had those exact traits and i didnt care guys a re shallow well most of them are at least but alot of them arent so u will find that guy one day dnt worry about it
Based on all that you have written,there is nothing wrong with you. You may have a guy who is blind,and deaf.Only then can he explain how he would not be head over heels in love with you..Ignore him for awhile and pretend to be dating another guy and see what he does.I wish you well.
A man that is going to love you, is going to accept what and how you look like. From the inside and form the outside! and he will always respect you. Just wait for the one. cause for all sizes theres a lover for that person. ..even the most ugly person you could imagine.
Some people just don't like big women, try finding a guy that does...or a big guy? You could try to lose weight too. But if you find a guy that really does love you he wouldn't care about how much you weigh...at least that's what i think.
maybe bad face or bad hair? it seems shallow but in the first ten minutes u meet a guy hell decide whether ur hot or not, and face and hair are big components. also smile
Try flirting with guys, see what happens. If it doesn't work out keep trying.
its better than guys wanting nothing but sex from you.
You sound gorgeous. What's your number?
maybe you are a little needy? just a thought
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