Should i talk to him? guys advice wanted?

okay so there is this guy at church he plays the drums so hes always on stage i started liking him and i guess we always stare at each other i went to camp one week and missed to days and he was looking for me shud i talk to himShould i talk to him? guys advice wanted?
I understand that you like him and yet is afraid of the consequences.


What I do logically is lay out the options before me. Talk to him and get to know him..may become very good friends...and more


If it turns out bad, well there's a few million other guys out there. Based on the information you gave us, it seems he likes you as well.





I guess it wouldn't hurt to try it all depends on how much you like him.





*I like a girl, we've known each other quite well and we're mostly together in school. We talk every class but I'm too afraid to ';advance our relationship'; I don't quite know what I'm afraid of, and I think you have the same feeling as I do.





**BUT let me tell you something, the worst feeling you can get is ';having them sitting right next to you and you know that you can never have them.';


';It's hard to wait around for something that will never happen, but it's harder to stop when you know it's all you ever wanted.';





I regret on all the times where I could of hugged her, kissed her, or even said I love her





If you felt what I felt, you will truly understand the meaning of the quotes (***) but i wish you best of luck, talk to that guy get to know him and I hope you don't feel what I feelShould i talk to him? guys advice wanted?
Hell yeah.


Guys can be crazy shy and awkward too, so if you talk to him, he'd feel so much more comfortable. It sounds like he definitely likes you, and you should definitely go for it in my opinion.
uhh yeah you could talk to him, but just cause he was looking for you doenst mean he likes you. sorry but its possible.


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No, Yes, maybe.





Are you communicating telepathically right now?
yes go for it you never know till you try.

Guys advice on when a guy does this? I am shy?

Ok My guy best friend within the last 2 or three months whenever we are alone and laying down he will put his hands in his pants and start rubbing but he thinks I can't see because of our positions. Yesterday after he took me out to breakfast he was like ';I thought I'd come inside for a little bit'; No one was home and he used the bathroom first then he layed down on my bed and stuck his hands in his pants for a sec then pulled his hand out really quick and he knew I saw. Anyways I'm a virgin he knows I want to wait till marriage.Whenever we mess around he ends up on top of me and won't get up and will just lay there, plus when we hug and then i try to pull away he holds me there a little longer. We've been best friends for two years and I haven't even kissed him. Anyways the next time he does that rub himself what does he want me to do or how should I react I do love him. I mean we cuddle all the time should I lay down and kiss him or what should I do so he knows i want the intimacy.Guys advice on when a guy does this? I am shy?
Wow...this guy isn't holding back is he? First of all, how do you feel about him? If you love him tell him, but let me ask you, are comfortable when he does that? If you are then you obviously have feelings for him..pretty deep one's if you ask me. Obviously this guy wants you..bad, but try to start a relationship other then friendship, if he sticks around then stay with him..there's nothing wrong with having sex, just as long as you two know what you want and are safe about it. Just think with your head first, then your heart, then everything else.Guys advice on when a guy does this? I am shy?
stay away 4rm him
he's not thinking of you really at all. He just wants sex, that's it. He's not thinking of you really - he's fantasizing about you, but he's not treating you with respect.





don't have sex without a commitment (marriage) if he wants sex with you, he needs to make that kind of commitment to you, so he doens' t go and get you pregnant and dump you. He seems like the kind of guy to do something like that. Don't make that mistake.





besides that - do you call him all the time or does he just call you when you call him. What happens when you don't call him. Does he call you? I'm not sure he's even your friend.





He may have a problem with porn -you never know - I'd suspect it. I really would.

Girl/guys advice!?

My girlfriend just broke up with me and i feel like ****! guys wat have you guys done to get over that hill! and girls wat have you done?Girl/guys advice!?
Time is the only thing that will heal you sadly.... I have had many things go wrong... Best thing to do is keep your self busy, and hope for the best!~





I hope you are doing alright feel free to write me if you want.Girl/guys advice!?
Well I pretty much,accept that something was'nt right.No use crying oved spilt milk.So I move on

How do you know when a guy really loves you? guys i need your advice?

or if he takes you seriously and cares about you and sees you as a girlfriend not just friend with privaliges.How do you know when a guy really loves you? guys i need your advice?
I think it's probably obvious... you know whether or not he takes you seriously, and he does things that show he cares...


And you should probably know if he sees you that way or not... I don't know, it's all just obvious. It's pretty black and white. I mean, sometimes dating around blends into an official relationship with a guy. They don't always have to ask ';Will you be my girlfriend?'; I just think it's pretty obvious if you're his girlfriend or a friends with bens...





But if you can't tell, just ask him! And laugh so it takes pressure off :) Good luckHow do you know when a guy really loves you? guys i need your advice?
I'm not a guy, but you'll know when you KNOW. He'll see you as more as than a sex object, he'll listen to you, want to hang out with you, want to make you smile or be happy, and want to be there for you when you need him.
A guy really loves when he does things he has never done for other girls:


Eg.:


- introduces you to family, friends and other girls as his girlfriend (not a friend).


- tells you his deepest fears and goals
if he loves you he will respect you and possibly wait for sex until you both agree on it. if he says it he may be serious or a guys who throws the L word out for attention

Meeting Guys? advice?

i go to an all girl school and just moved to america, and im rather shy any advice on how to meet guys?Meeting Guys? advice?
Here's some advice. American can't marry when they're 12.Meeting Guys? advice?
Dear Tallulla H:





I wrote a post to someone else


about this. I can't find it now.





But ..... Here is what you can do:





Compose %26amp; Print Out a Questionaire!


Here is the premise:





You are Conducting some Research


for an Exciting Class School Project.





The Subject?


Shyness %26amp; a Study In Human


Inter-Personal Dynamics %26amp; Communication





Compose ANY Questions you want!


Write it down %26amp; carry it with you.





If you see a Hot Guy or Guys?


Just approach them %26amp; ask them if


they will assist you in a Class Study about


Shyness! You are from another Country?


PERFECT! How could they turn you down?





Ask the males their name~


Their Email Address~


Age, School, astrological sign, etc.





Ask them about Shyness %26amp; Speaking


to girls.


Are they shy?


Do they find it easy to meet girls?


Might they consider a date of tea


or a movie with you ~ in the future? :-)





etc. etc. ~ Ask um anything you want?





If you are at a Shopping Mall?


Approach the guys!


Interview them with your list!


Write it down on your prepared sheet.


(Don't approach weirdo's)





If young dudes are in line at a movie?


Talk to them! Say~ ';my name is Tallulla!


I am new to America..........


Can I talk to you for a minute about my


Research for School?'; They will say YES!





If they say NO? So what? Go to a Tea/


Coffee Shop %26amp; pull out your prepared


questions %26amp; ask them about Shyness


%26amp; Human Inter-Personal Communication!





YOU CAN DO IT!





Get out there %26amp; meet guys!


HAVE FUN With it!


Over-come your FEARS!


Help Others do the same.


Bring a friend with you!


It would help if you were Both HOT


%26amp; nicely dressed.





Good Luck


Hope this helps~ Tallulla





PS: You can ';Practice'; on your


girl classmates, to gain confidence


for the future, when you casually meet


the guys you seek *walking around!

More Guys Advice Wanted:?

When asked, most guys say that the reason they will not ask a successful attractive woman out is because of his own insecurity, so then what is woman in this situation suppose to do if she wants to find a companion to travel with, go to parties and just relax with? What can possibly make her more approachable than just smiling and being kind to others?More Guys Advice Wanted:?
Why not just ask a guy to travel, go to parties, etc. This IS the year 2007, not 1957. And if you make the ';bounds'; of the relationship (we are just going to a party, nothing more) clear, there is nothing wrong with asking. I have been asked out by women plenty of times, and there is nothing cooler than that. My two best friends are women and that started with them asking me to go with them to a black tie event and to dinner respectively. Just go and ask...More Guys Advice Wanted:?
Scaffold this: NUDE! That's coalescent.
Well they're probably looking for one of these insecure guys

colorsilk revlon

Girls, Guys advice for a confused heart?

Ok so there is this guy whom I have been crushing on for two years. He recently told me shyly I may add that he had liked me for a year now. Well now he flirts with me constantly and I will do it lightly back. However...he is now dating an acqauintance of mine now. I have immediately stopped flirting with him and am trying to get over him. One problem...he's still flirting with me. He does it all the time and everywhere. Even in front of his gf. I've known his girl for five years and would never hurt her for my own gain. He came up to be today and grabbed hold of my hand, pulled me close to him, and whispered in my ear ';to not give up on him', that he still likes me a lot. What do I do about this guy?Girls, Guys advice for a confused heart?
confront him and tell him to stopGirls, Guys advice for a confused heart?
forget him
give up on him. its only going to get worse. He has a girlfriend and needs to just be wit her, hes looking for comitment in her and then still flirts with you. thats not right. hes just playing with your heart. it may hurt but its better to give up now then keep flirting and for you to get more attached to him.
tell him to either stop or break it off w/ the gf. if he doesnt do either then just try your best to ignore him. i know its hard but thats what you have to do.





best of luck %26lt;3
It sounds like this guys got some issues...if that's the case your probably better off without him. If he really likes you, and you guys do start dating...it's not exactly the best thing to do to your friend...I'd try to forget he was ever available.
What! Are you on the waiting list or something. Boo, please do not waste anymore of your time on this guy. He sounds like postage--please wait 4-7 days for shipping.. Just think if you were his girl and he was telling someone else this.. don't think your special and he won't do this to you. I suggest you move on, and sooner than you know it, you'll have someone that will appreciate you and not make you look like your waiting on something in the mail. Take care sweetheart.
Forget about him, I don't know whether or not what a jerk she has for a bf, but she should know, you are right friendship is more important, and if he likes you so much then why doesn't he confront his gf. your friend should know that you had a crush on him. Ask youself why didn't he come foward before, why make things akward now. If he truly was a good person he would not string you along like that. As well if something does happen between you two while he and your friend are together, you would seriously regret it. Hear what, put yourself in your friend's shoes, how would you feel knowing that your bf, was whispering in someone else's ear to wait. This is like I said a jerk. You deserve better, you both deserve better.
Tell him that he can't do this to you and his girlfriend,he's putting you in a horrible position,Tell him that he has to make up his mind.......wait a minute........if he likes you why did he go out with your friend in the first place? Ask him that! and c what he says, in any other case you shud try ur best to get over him.
check thi out yo, if he can flirt with you when he has a girl friend then don't you think he will do the same to you when yo'll start going out, or rather what are the chances of that happening? i think.....60% and that's alot for a guy!!!


So forget him!!!!!

Need guys advice?

What kind of experience have you guys had having a girl or a potential girlfriend in HIGH SCHOOL and your NOT...So you have a fulltime job or go to college the fact is your not in high school and she is...What kind of experience have you guys had in this situation....Just wondering to see if I want to sit in the table or just give a way my seat if you know what i mean...Need guys advice?
Well, I had this sort of situation when I got out of HS. Before I shipped into the service I was dating a girl who was a junior (2 years younger than me, nbd). When we were together, it was fun and we both had a great time. Ultimately, when real life hit and I was going to be gone, we called things off and agreed to look back fondly on the times we had.





In my mind I think things can work, but I certainly wouldn't consider any sort of ';serious'; relationship while she is still in school. The dynamics are just too intense and she is still trying to figure out what she wants to do (as are you probably). I recommend giving it a go if you can both agree to let go when/if that time comes. Things change fast at that age and I believe it is important to understand and accept that instead of wasting a lot of time and tears trying to fight it. Best of luck!Need guys advice?
what ?????????????
This is a tough one... if she is very mature it could work out.. if not... it will end badly.
I know you said guys answer, but when I was in high school I only dated people out of high school with jobs and college. There never seemed to be a problem as long as you make it clear to her that you can't spend all of your time with her but make the time you do spend worth while. Go to dinner or a movie or just cuddle up with each other when you do have quality time to spend. If she can't understand your busy lifestyle then she is too immature for you to be dating in the first place.
Im at university and my girlfriend is in upper 6th, its hard not being with her, and i see her hardly ever, but i trust her and she trusts me and so there is no cheating worry.........but it aaaaint easy





oooooo just incase there is a ';you pedo'; comment i'll just add that there is only a year difference in upper sixth and uni.....so yeh.......dunno if thats the same as high school

NEED GUYS ADVICE HERE!!!!!?

Do guys really like it when we admit that we like them? someone said ';just tell him you like him,guys like when a girl does that actually'; this on another question. i was wondering if thats true because guys usually make the first move so is it odd or something?NEED GUYS ADVICE HERE!!!!!?
i think its cool wen girls do thatNEED GUYS ADVICE HERE!!!!!?
HELLO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! yes we like it when you just say whats on your mind. i think its time stop all this kryptic woman crap and just come out and say what you feel. us guys do that. why do you have to wait for the guy to make the first move. u know its getting harder for us guys to make the first move when chics like to play games and shut us down, but in the back of there minds they really do like us, its just they want to play hard to get, and then get all butt hurt when they see the dude with that other chick..........
Yeah, guys make the first move. Since when? :-) Equal chances? Equal rights? You make the first move and you'll most likely mess him up :-).





One thing, though... Despite the fact there's a little boy always ready to play in each man, that little boy hates to be lied to. Be honest. Both to yourself and to him.





Let me know how this turns out :-)


Take care!
Let me tell you something... I'm a guy, and I do like it when a girl tells me she likes me, the problem is that we don't take those girls seriously... a guy will stick to a girl, if the girl is hard to get... we like the challenge from time to time... just give the guy a hint, that is all... never admit you like him.
I would definitely say yes. Any guy would like to hear that he is liked by a certain female. Some may be to shy or reserved to make the first move. It is not odd at all for a woman to make the first move and that might be what it takes to start a great relationship.
in earlier times this would be true but not today. The only set back to a girl letting a guy know that she likes him, today, is that he may not really like you for nothing more then A TOY so do what you feel but be smart about it and not easily offended. GOOD LUCK !!! NOW GO GET THEM !!
89% of guys like it when girls make the first move. i think 94% or something like it when u send them flowers. i think. i forget. ut uhh guys like it if u admit it only if they like you, but if they dont like u they dont care.
I love it when girl admits to me but after they say i just need to walk away and then talk to them later because at first i feel akward
Sure unless you have no chance. If he's the School's Quarterback and you're pushing 200 pounds he probably won't be too thrilled. Sad but true.
Yeah kinda especially if it is a cute girl, or someone who the boy has been liking for awhile.
No its not, it actually takes off stress, and it also confirms
Guys don't always have to make the first move, just go for it. But just tell him casually, don't come on too strong.
Depends on the girl, but usually it feels pretty awesome.
Yeah stop f`cking with our MINDS!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH鈥?br>







Just tell him.... Then do him.... Then gimme the details...
well they are somtimes shocked when you tell them but im not that shy girl that doesnt tell a guy but i dont think theres anything wrong with telling a guy that
well when a girl tells me she likes me it makes things easier, opposed to trying to piick up on mixed signals.


so tell him
Most guys would like you to tell them that you liked them. I myself like it.
Alot of guys would rather you tell them you like them than he tell you.
yes it is true for both guys and girls


however u should make sure you like him and avoid sending false signal





girls read between the lines


guys dont
well i know that but some girls are just too nervous to tell guys. so thats why some people don't tell.



MATTERs the guy.
REALLY?


ADMIT?


ACTUALLY?


ODD?


What is this??





Smiles and make eye contact works when hunting for a date
hell yeah! sometimes we are oblivious, we need to be told
yse



i like it...its cute
I totally feel your pain here... Woudn't want to be creepy now would we? Hmm... Tricky. Haha

For guys: advice please!!!!!!!?

I really fell hard for my best guy friend but he's got a girlfriend. I'm not trying to be conceited but i know im way prettier than her and Ive been dressing sexy in school to get his attention more..i know he still has feelings for me from the past and him and his ugly gf have only been dating for like 2 weeks. What should i do to really get his attention on me???For guys: advice please!!!!!!!?
be yourself around himFor guys: advice please!!!!!!!?
talk to him about it.

Guys and girls opinons please..need guy advice?!?1?

i met him a while ago%26amp; we have been talking normally daily.he is almost a year older than me(gr11).i can talk to him about alot of stuff. i started getting feelings for him,(in the summer, i think he was asking me on a date but i wasnt able to go, %26amp; he hasnt mentioned it since)%26amp; right now i kind of fell like a piece of a*s to him%26amp; once i let him know i wasnt just going to do s**t with him,he used the old .im kidding.well your to young for me anyways.which upset me bc u think that wouldve been an issue in tsummer.i like him a lot%26amp; once i set him straight he went back to his normal self.i wanna let him know how i feel but i cant bring myself to do it.nowbecause ';im to young for him'; so it wouldnt amount to anything anyways. my friend kind of told him last night without my consent..so i had to play it of by say '; ya ur right, it slipped my mind i forgot to to you how madly in love i am with you.'; %26amp; then we laughed it off...i wanna tell him but i dont want him to shut me down ..suggestionsGuys and girls opinons please..need guy advice?!?1?
lol....not lol at u but the fact that u said that u dot wana get shut down...well think about it u can live with this crappy feeling of wonder or u can ask him mayb get a yes mayb get a no but ull be able to move on...y are u waisting time on this earth? its limited...do u wana look bak in 2 0 years and be like damb i should have just done it...honestly think hard about this cuz if u live in fear ur not really living...


GOOD LUCK


PEACEGuys and girls opinons please..need guy advice?!?1?
np...but talk to him if he's as good as a friend as u think he'll understand

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sounds like he just wants to ';hit it'; without the boundaries of a relationship. He just threw the ';too young for me'; in there for two reasons, 1. to make himself feel better about you telling him he wasn't getting any and 2. to make you think he wasn't for real interested in the first place.
your to young to date, go do your homework.

HELP GUYS...advice?

my man broke up our 6 yr relationship. he got 'bored' of our life, got in with carefree guys and was partying. last few days he has started returning me calls texting me 'from the heart', about were we went wrong. never text me in his life before. now he has called me out of the blue, i am angry and not taking his calls.what is up here?? he would tell me if he had been cheatingHELP GUYS...advice?
from a guys perspective:





soudns liek he has been cheating......dont take him back


its not worth it, yo ucan do sooo much better!





you deserve it 100% :D your still yougn and rememebr your gonan be with this person for THE REST OF YOUR LIFE! make it the right personHELP GUYS...advice?
i believe he got bored and realized that he misses yu

colorsilk revlon

Hey GUYS! advice please?

I'm 15 years old. 5'10, and curvy. ( I'm not a stick, and i'm not obese )





is this attractive? or un-attractive in a guy's point of view?Hey GUYS! advice please?
sounds totally attractive, prolly one issue your having is maybe your height cuz most guys are intimidated by tall girls. totally not your fault. and it makes it even harder finding a guy thats your height that you could actually date. but ya you sound attractive so don't worry. stay away from drama and it'll all be good. lolHey GUYS! advice please?
I wouldn't say attractive or unattractive right away but its leaning more on attractive
yes it is, attractive that is.

What did i do wrong? I really need advice and help from u guys!?

Hey everybody! im having problems wit my ex. i broke up wit him cause i was stressed out. now i wont him back. i promise him that i wouldnt leave him and we will be together 4ever. now i left the state and im in Florida. i wrote him on myspace cause i wont him to come see me but he said no... i still love him everything. wat should i do?What did i do wrong? I really need advice and help from u guys!?
What did you do wrong? You probably broke the poor guy's heart! He's not going to trust you right off the bat. He's probably afraid that you are just messing with him.What did i do wrong? I really need advice and help from u guys!?
If he ain't going along with it you can't make him. He has to want to.


you can not control him.





We can not always have what we want. You just have to learn to accept that fact sometimes.
you should move on...if you hurt him bad enough then it will be hard to get him back... my gf and i just broke up and i dont know if id ever date her again after wat she did...
talk to him


just show him ull be there when he needs you








help on the last question i put up?
this may not sound like good advice but my boyfriend moved away and everything got too hard for us so we Just quit .i am living proof that long-distance relationships don`t work.Trust me.but if u really want him don`t call him a lot and dont force it on him when he wants to come see u he will.

Girls guys advice needed please?

ok its comein up to christmas and im looking for love





also





here is the story





at college there was this lad from the start and he was staring and smiling


then recently he whistled at me


and i asked him for his number he took mine instead


then he never texted me so we got someone to ask why and he said his phones broke he hasnt got it yet and when he gets his new one he will text me





what do you think he is playing at???Girls guys advice needed please?
maybe he is actualy telling the truth, if i were you i wouldnt rely on him texting and if hes telling the truth and he wants to get to know you further you will have a nice surprise when he does get his phone bk, at least that way you wont feel let down by thinkin about it too much.Girls guys advice needed please?
I think that he is playing u, because most of the time, the guys usually want to exchange numbers with u, like u givr him urs and he gives u his, well.... he might be one of those guys that wants to have a one night stand and then say screw u the next time u see him, but that's what I think.
He's playing hard to get, which obviously worked because you initiated the first contact billy.





He's hiding something, just wait a week and see where it goes from there.

NEED GUYS ADVICE!!!!!!!!!! ASAP!!!!?

well me and my bf want to spend time together but we never really get to c each other... and he's always workin on the weekends and when he's not i already got plans and i dont no wat to do about it and i dont think our relationship will last much longer... wat should i do?NEED GUYS ADVICE!!!!!!!!!! ASAP!!!!?
after school ? ? if you guys really like eachother that much then yall should be able to find time for eachother:)





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Need GUYS advice! How much space should I give him?

At the begining of April, he stopped answering my calls and would not call me back for over 2 weeks. I found out he had gone on a spontaneous roadtrip when he got back and texted me. We saw eachother and only sorta talked about what happened. (I had thought he was dumping me) After that, I didn't talk to him for a week. I had only tried calling him once, but got no answer. I thought he had just been jerking me around. I went and saw an old friend that found me on myspace and ended up sleeping with him, only to hear from my guy the next day. I told him everything and we had a big blow out. He dumped me for real...then I got a call about a week and a half later saying he wanted to see me and talk. He wants to try to work things out (and so do I). That was on Friday. I called him yesturday with no answer, how long should I wait to hear from him before trying him again? how can we move past all this? What should I do to regain his trust?Need GUYS advice! How much space should I give him?
Don't worry about what you did so much. He flaked on you when he bailed on the road trip. His phone had to be working, so He was blowing you off. He hasn't been returning your calls until he finds out you slept with someone. Being a guy and see this happen many times, I am almost certain that he has another girl on the side. If a guy is into you, he can't wait for you to call. he tries to figure out excuses to call you. When his phone rings and he knows its you, he will immediately answer. If he misses the call, he will call you back just as soon as possible. It doesn't sound like your man does this, so you don't owe him anything. If anything, he still owes you. I wouldn't worry if he trusts you, you shouldn't be trusting him. He isn't acting like a boyfriend, he is acting like he uses you for sex and when he ain't getting it elsewhere, he comes calling on you. This all smells fishy to me.Need GUYS advice! How much space should I give him?
you are his sure thing. We call you the booty call. We want you when there is nothing else going on in our lives. You are a backup plan. I suggest you dump the dude and move on with your life. There are plenty of fish in the sea. To meet some other guy, just remember to make the first move. Good Luck
Don`t Call Him And He Will Start To Miss You! Let Him Do All The Seeking, If He Thinks Your Loosing Interest He`ll Seek You So Be Patient, And Good Luck!
Pfft you're not the one who needs to regain trust. If you even are really sure u wanna stay with him, make HIM regain YOUR trust.
if he didnt take care of his girl someone else will that wat happened but it wasnt ur fault cuz he was gonna dump if u don't hear from a guy for more then 3 days then he doesn't care bout u so i don't if he wanna work things out with u or get back at u just becareful, try to relax go back with him n don't apologize for wat u did if he was there then u wouldnt have done it so tell him that u felt lonely and it was just sex and its not goin to happen again n if he is serious he will realize his mistakes n will try to make up
okay first of all don't feed into his i want to work it out because in some situations it cane be worked out but with yours he doesn't care about you enough to tell you that he is leaving and then he sleeps with another girl and soon after he wants to work it out. i have a strong attitude and for youto call him up and confront him is a very hard thing but sooner or later he will break up with you again brcuase hell meet another gurl who will fullfill his needs the way you ont and that is ussually the problem with reconsilluation between people in a relationship. somethings are not ment to be even though you want it to work out.
I think you should wait for him to call you back. If he does not call in a couple of days, he probably just want's to fool around with you!

How to dress on date advice please -read below (guys and girls)?

On Saturday, I am going to be on a date with this girl (our first date together) and it is a small, above average restaurant in a college town. It's kinda low-key. How should I dress? I don't wanna be too bold or too underdressed. I am 24 by the way. I know no dress clothes or t-shirt, but what else. Any other tips helpful too.How to dress on date advice please -read below (guys and girls)?
I would say khakis and a nice button-up shirt would be perfect. Not too dressy, but not under-dressed either.

colorsilk revlon

Girlfriend (guys advice only!)?

How can i be the best girlfriend in a guys eyes? (specifics please) and how can i make friends with his friends?Girlfriend (guys advice only!)?
listen, give him space if you want to call him and he's with his friends text him. but dont expect an answer in the next 5 minutes find out what he likes dont worry about his friends too much. worry about being comfortable with him and him being comfortable with youGirlfriend (guys advice only!)?
Just.....be yourself......be yourself.....................be yourself, my dear woman...^^
my main problems with females are insecurity, jelousey and drama, avoid these and u should be all set,
oh god


my friend has had a girl that we all didnt like and one we did like.





just be nice to your boyfriend.


dont ignore him for four weeks.


and if you make him happy, then his friends will like you too.








now, if you constantly ditch your boyfriend, or start making things confusing and make your boyfriend sad, his friends will definately NOT like you.





so basicallly. if you boyfriend is happy with you, then so are his friends.


and if your boyfriend still likes you, but is sad becuase if you, then his friends wont like you....and try to get him to break up with you.











and to touch on ';How can i be the best girlfriend in a guys eyes?';...





all guys are different.


for example


what my friends see as annoyances in a girl, i see as fun and exciting traits.


so..yeah. all guys are different.
For your boyfriend, simple. MAKE him feel like you need him for certain things, no matter how small or insignificant. A good example is my girlfriend ALWAYS asks me to open her soda cans, or bottles, or whatever like that, Strange I know but oddly it makes her seem so cute and makes me feel needed ona day to day basis, there are obviously other steps to take but this is a start. To get in good with his friends, that can be harder... mostly if you have a common interest that would be key.. find out what they like. See if its something you might like to try..
when you meet he friends be warm and nice. talk on there terms not yours. be a good listener. remember there first names. most of all be yourself. good luck.
Best girlfriend is to be yourself, don't play games trying to get him to read your mind. Be straight forward with your questions. Show interest in his hobbies and pay attention to what is going on with his friends. Don't ever withhold affection when your mad at him, and you will be, but don't use affection as a prize or award. Dont do anything you dont want to do, and let him know why, in advance not seconds before. Dont expect gifts for any anniversary until your married. Realize no matter how much he likes you, he will look at other woman. Ang most of all, have confidence in your relationship, respect and be honest. If he is worth having, you will receive the same from him.
dont get jealous and mad a lot
Be yourself and let things go both ways (give and take)


Don't overdo what ever you decide to do


DON'T NAG


Generally just be what a girl is, warm cuddly and fantastic





Much love


xx
Treat him like a kid and let him play with his toys for at the end of the day, he'll still come home to mommy.
That depends on the person you call b/f.
Well in my point of view I would say the perfect girlfriend will be very caring about me my job and of course our relation ship you know like drive by at work have lunch together call me often to see how's work and how's it going. This is also a good way to avoid cheating cause he/ she is constantly thinking/ talking to each other.
this sounds so cliche'...but it is the 1000000000% truth...





JUST BE YOURSELF! No need to impress - no need to get all ';fancy'; with anything - just be yourself - the girl he met...and friends with his friends? Some you might hit it off with, others maybe not - but by being just you - your chances are much better!
Well for me, to be the best girlfriend is to allow me to be the best that I can be. Encourage (not nag) me to do my best. Help me out if help is needed and be by my side at all times. Pretty much be my support so that I can be your support. To become my friends' friend, well that all depends on you, it's just like being anyone else's friend. I personally wouldn't want you as close to them as I am. That could cause problems because, sad to say, not all friends are friends.

GUYS ONLY !! GUYS ADVICE WANTED .....?

k well i really want a guys take on this because i really wonder what boys think about girls and pmsing and periods and stuff !! i mean does it bother u when a girls tells you shes on her period or what ?? what do u really think about it ??GUYS ONLY !! GUYS ADVICE WANTED .....?
GUYS ONLY for crying out loud.





We are not wimps. Girls just assume that it bothers guys. They don't actually ask. Thank you for asking.





It doesn't bother me when a girl tells me they're on their period. I'd rather be told then not.





My mate was with a girl and the girl didn't tell him she was on it and he didn't know either and they had sex and he had blood all over his shirt.





Tsk Tsk. That's why you MUST tell a guy you're on your period BEFORE sex.





EDIT: If you think guys are immature about periods. Wait til you talk about boners with girls. Straight away they laugh.GUYS ONLY !! GUYS ADVICE WANTED .....?
hey,





My girlfriend either tells me or i ask. I like to know so i don't push things to were she gets pissy. The thing i HATE the most is when i try to make her feel better and cheerful and she gets pissy with me. I know girls hate it and it sucks but don't be pissy with the person who loves you and is trying to help you. But no it doesn't bother me. I think its kind of sexy because it shows there a women...





Edit: i can usually tell when she is though...
idk how many guys your gonna get here lol so im gonna answer :]





my best friend (a guy) can alwaysss tell when its my time of the month haha. idk how he knows cuz i dont get mood swings or anything really. he says he can see im exhausted (true) and im in pain (very true) and he said he doest care as long as i dont talk about it a lot haha and im not b*tchy to him lol.
To be honest, it can be a little weird to a guy. Its something he doesn't have close experience with, and will be hard for him to get used to. I wouldnt bring such a topic up with a guy you dont know, but close friends or boyfriends will learn to understand. It can also show maturity in ways. Simply, the answer depends on the guy and your relationship with him.
i really dont mind if my girlfriend chooses to talk about it.


ive even been asked to buy tampons for her before and yes i did it without any embarassment :)
they are wimps

Need guys'advice - Cancer Guys only?

Hopefully you would be able to shed some light on this matter for me..





Why does a guy continues to contact his ex-gf (he initiated the breakup) via text messages constantly? He would try small talk, like how you're doing, what's your plans for the weekend, etc. What's his motive?Need guys'advice - Cancer Guys only?
I am a cancer guy, and so are some of my friends and we have both done the samething but with TOTALLY differetn reasons, me because i like to keep my options open and i'm not just talking sex i mean just friendsship and my mate doesn it because he's looking for a ***** buddyNeed guys'advice - Cancer Guys only?
his motive is to have sex with her.

Need Guy advice... GUYS?

i like this guy alot. we've been friends for almost 2 years.....would it be weird if I asked him to the movies alone? just him and i? how would i ask?Need Guy advice... GUYS?
pass it off casually first and then during the movie hold his hand or something - he shud get the idea

Girls and guys advice?

i would like to know how to make my first time perfect, im very nervous and do not really know a lot about it so if you could give me some ideas on what to do, what not to do and some romantic ideas this would really help thanks you guys! oh and you can put anything else you think i should knowGirls and guys advice?
Haaa How Old Are You Lol.

Guys suck! i need a guys advice!?

So my mom hates my boyfriend. and i have been still seeing him even thou she doesnt approve, but i dont care because i love him. He means everything to me. Well he broke up with me because he doesnt want me to get into trouble, but if he loved me it wouldnt matter. Because people do crazy things when their in love right? Do you guys think that is the real reason or do you think there could be something else?Guys suck! i need a guys advice!?
well... your mom is just insane! lol jk i love ur mom but yeah... well my brother is just being a stupid idiot and isnt thinking right.... he does love you back and you know he does.... thats why he doesnt want you to get into nymore trouble... hes caring... but i still dont thin he should have fully broke up with you.... but i dont think he is seeing or thinking bout anyone else... i think my guy is just getting into his head or something cuz everytime they together my brither is a dick to you.... and ur brother sometimes does the same to me!!... so i just thinks its them too trying to be guys and show them selfs that they are tough... but to me showing ur sensitive side makes the tough you know?..... well i love you!!! Spade And Loca Weda forever!!!... cant wait to get our monkey!!! lolGuys suck! i need a guys advice!?
i think there is some thing else
That could be the real reason. He really might just want you not to get in trouble. He's looking out for you.
Mothers usually are pretty intuitive when it comes to boyfriends especially.I think he's gone because he knows your mom'; has his number';.Many young kids misinterpret sex for love and many really don't know real love unfortunately.I hope that's not the case with you.
sometimes, there's something else. but seriously, he probably just broke up because of your mom, he doesn't want you to get in trouble. that also shows he cares, because he can respect ur mom's values too. it's not like he thinks unrational and tries to steal u away and stuff like dat. maybe in time it'll work out if he really really loves u. but let him settle things first, or talkt o him bout it how u guys wanna go about da problem
Well i dont think he was serious at all for the reason that he didnt change for your mom.


So he might have not been serious when you were going out with him because if he was, then he would love to change for your mom.


I dont think you should date somebody who has no respect for your family.


So i doubt he was looking out for you, there must have been something else


But if you like him alot talk to him about changing, hopefully he will and your mom would accept the ';new'; him.


Good luck with him

colorsilk revlon

Your thoughts pls also guys advice would be great..?

My bf and I were out last night having a few drinks and I started a domestic basically putting my past relationships on him cos im insecure and scared of commitment..I apologised afterwards and said ';can u forget it'; he said ';ill try and ill do anything for you its just that im trying to put the relationship forward and everytime I do that you push me away with your insecurities.';


He also said on a different note that we have to go to his parents house for dinner one night as they are really looking forward to meeting me, we have been together 5 months..


After I left his place today I msgd him and once again I apologised about last night and said I promise it wont happen again and said hope you had a good time otherwise last night he replied with ';Yeah had a good time and yep over it so lets have fun and speak soon';..


My question is does this sound like this guy is really serious about me and into me heaps or not necassarily??Your thoughts pls also guys advice would be great..?
He wants you to meet his parents,doesn't he? Your bf sounds like a really decent oke,give him a fair chance by not letting your past ruin your relationship...Your thoughts pls also guys advice would be great..?
of course hes serious about you, why would he want to wake you to meet his parents if he wasn't serious about you? he sounds really sweet and understanding.
He could be, just stop freaking him out!
if he wants you to go to dinner it sounds serious. jealousy and insecurity can kill a relationship. the other person will get tired of it and feel stifled. look on the net for advice on insecurity and self esteem. you need to like yourself before anyone can like you.
Note for girls to guys:





If we say we are over it... DON'T PRESS THE SUBJECT!!!!!!!





If he's trying to press the relationship he's out for one of two things... 1. If you haven't had sex, that's what it is... 2. if you have had sex, he's really into you and wants to see if you guys could make it in the long haul.





Parent meeting is a pretty good sign that he's a point 2 guy.
youll find out when u meet the parents
he likes u...if he want u to meet the parents then its a good sign

I need girls and guys advice?

i told a guy a fake # he wanted to call me last weekend and i dnt have phone so i gave him a fake # i think hes cute but im not sure wat to do now i havnt heard from him all day i think hes tring to avoid me please help wat should i do????I need girls and guys advice?
You gave him a fake number! He probably took that as a ';no';. If you were into him and didn't have a phone, you should have just straight up told him that. You deserve it if you're really that dumb.I need girls and guys advice?
Add him to Facebook/MySpace and APOLOGIZE to him for the fake number.





Use the site to talk back and forth. Explain to him that you felt embarassed that you didn't have a cell phone or whatever. If he understands, then he's a good guy. But he will tell you not to deceive him again, in which you shouldn't.
How could he be avoiding you on purpose if you dont have a phone.
YOU HAVEN'T HEARD FROM HIM BECAUSE YOU GAVE HIM A FAKE NUMBER DUMB ***.

Hooters for guys advice?

why do guys like hootersHooters for guys advice?
i don't like it, the only reason that some guys like it is because the waitresses flirt with them for higher tips. the type of guys that go there usually cant get girls with actual self-esteem and more than 3 brain cells.Hooters for guys advice?
First of all, it's a commentary on just how wonderful the Hooters Restaurant Chain has done their job, that not a single one of the people who answered so far assumed that ';hooters'; meant ';breasts';.





This same question, asked 25 years ago, would have been assumed by everyone to mean ';why do guys like women's breasts';.





...oh, and for the record, the reason that guys like Hooters, is because guys like hooters.
because girls dress slutty and I heard guys drop something and tell the waitress to pick it up


i think it's demeaning and i'm a guy lol but that's not to say i wouldn't do it! lol
because there's hot waiters
the food is great
they make good noise at parties

Should i call him? (guys advice please)?

i started talking to this guy at work and one day about two weeks ago when he was walking me to my car he said can i have you number so we can do something this week. i gave it to him and he gave me his. he didn't call and i saw him this past week and he said he had been really busy. the job is only part time and i only go in about a day a week and we don't exactly work in the same departments. would it be foolish of me to call him even he hasn't called me or by not calling does that mean he isn't interested? what should i say if i do call?Should i call him? (guys advice please)?
Why not give him a call? Ask him how he's doing, what he's been up to, and if he wants to do something with you this week.Should i call him? (guys advice please)?
ask your father
call.
Elizabeth, Elizabeth. It's once or never. I would be so looking for someone new...





If you give a guy a chance to make mistakes with you it's not quite the same as when he makes them automatically.





Follow your heart, and allow him what measure of forgiveness you honestly feel toward him.





The second try will answer all your questions, and you will have your answer.
As a guy, NO, do not call. It is his resposibility for asking to be aquainted closer in the first place.





If he hasn't called, and was ballsy enough to purse, that would mean to me that he has ';other'; (';better';, ';sluttier';) options to pursue before getting to you.





I, as the opposite sex, (f-you guys that are immoral) woul deny ANY %26amp; ALL advances from this person.





Knock him down a peg. It may save some other girl some heartache...
u should say whats going on why didnt u call me
if he really intrested in you he will take time to call you...
From my experience, don't date people you see in a business setting. When it gets messy, and it eventually will, you'll see whether you can take the whole store knowing your business or not.





the #1 mistake young women do is smothering. Guys like to be independent. You should be independent too cause if you're only somewhere because of him, it's not a relationship.





You have his story. if you believe it, don't call. If you don't believe it, call; but it can lead to severe trust issues later.
call him and say if he wants do something ur free this weekend or the next day.
There is no reason you shouldnt call him. You exchanged numbers so you could call each other, so go ahead and call him.
It isnt stupid at all to call him, in fact it would show him that you are intrested and he wont feel stupid if he does for just asking you out so bluntly. Calling him wont hurt.
if it was me I wouldnt call him... I always wait for the guy to call me or to make the first move..I dont want to let him know that I want him.. hes gotta want me first, act like your you couldnt care less if you hang out or not... acting desperate is not cool.. and if he doesnt call, so what! theres alot of pther hotties out there!! :)
No, he is either too busy, or not interested. The next time you see him, say something like, ';I thought you were going to call me?'; If he answers that he has been too busy, but doesn't explain why, then he is not interested. He will probably explain what has been occupying his time and phone you right away.
I would say call him...plan on doing something with a few friends(it is football season). Plan on a small game party/ going to a party with a few freinds. Call him up to see if he would still like to get together and do something. If he would, then invite him to the game get-together. You will have a comfortable setting in which to get to know the guy, friends for support and feedback on the guy. If he says he is not interested in getting together, just let him know that's fine you just didn't want him to try and reach you, because you would be busy with friends on a particular day.
Considering the fact that he is the one who originally asked you for your number, i'd say he is interested. Give him a call, guys love when they don't have to make the first move.
let him make first move if he's interested he'll call


if you call it make you look like your desperate


if he dont call then it's his loss

I need a shy guys advice?

I like a shy guy and he likes me, I'm pretty sure things will pick up again when I return home (not 100% sure, we left things up in the air).


He knows I like him, and this doesn鈥檛 concern him, were still good friend.


I'm assertive, but I鈥檓 also pretty shy when it comes to men, but I care about him so much I'm willing to make the move, butttt.... I'm worried about smothering him. (I鈥檓 a Taurus he鈥檚 a Pisces, *info for astro buffs)


Also, I鈥檓 pretty sure even If he was into me, he'd be too shy about making a move.


How can I best make a move, without being too pushy.


And do I have to be the instigator all the time? Because the last few times I was, even though he made the first move.


Shy guy鈥檚 rock!!!I need a shy guys advice?
I think being a Piscean I can understand him a lot better than others. On top of it I am shy also.





Actually, pisceans know the art of wriggling out of situations before it gets too uncomfortable. To rein in that guy, you will have to ask him out for once and have open conversation with him. First of all, give him comfort that yes you can understand him and they respond to physical touches better than words, but don't be nasty, which will again be counterproductive.





Once he opens up with you, he will never go in the shell again to save himself.





Since, you are taurean, let me clarify, taureans are extremely confident and down to earth people. They have to b extra cautious with the pisceans as they are very much adept at building castles in the air, which annoys taureans. Be sure, you will have to be tender with the guy and he will never slip away, in fact, will be a pillar of strength for you when you need it the most.





Just go and open your heart in front of him. Good luck.I need a shy guys advice?
I'm not even a guy, but I think I can tell you to tell him how you feel, thereby 'forcing' him to reveal if he likes you. If not, then be too broken hearted, it's just that he's not your fated the ONE yet.
OK, I'm not a guy, but I still want to answer. Don't use a note to ask him out. Because if he's as shy as you say he is he'll most likely not answer. So I'd just make the move, but do it in person. Good luck!!
i m turus too and shy may togher we can fullfil our willings..
I am a shy guy...the only way to break him in, is to literally break him in...show him every time, more and more how crazy you are about only him...and it will drive him to eventually give in.
You know him, you've talked to him, he knows you like him...





You're already there. All you have to do is say, ';do you want to grab lunch sometime?';

I need girls and guys advice?

my boy friend alway wants to go out to movies and when we get there all he does is try to french kiss me and want to make out and i want to just what should i do if some one i see is at the movie and tells my parentsI need girls and guys advice?
You should tell your boyfriend how you feel. If you don't want to then tell him and if he gets mad dump him or just don't go to the movies.I need girls and guys advice?
dont be paranoid, just have fun and do what you want!!! thats what the problem is in most ppl they NEVER do what they want. whocares what other people think. and i dont think anyone will see you you kissing u cant tell who it is. and just wait till everyone is out of the theature b4 u get out. just dont make it happen lik everytime, sometimes its nice to just enjoy a movie also.
tell him ...there is a time and place for everything ....tell him you want to see the movie!! If you dont want to french kiss all the way through the film tell him to stop or he is history !
Always go with a scarf around ur face..!


its dark at the movies.. take isolated seats if possible ;)





Take a look around before u let ur bf proceed. (Im sure u do this like a thousand times already.. lol)





Or if it worries u so much, think of a different safe place 2 french kiss n stuff and hint ur bf gently abt it.





BTW, if u dont mind can i ask how old r u?


If ur young.. plz dont go too far, ur parents mayve already given u the talk... but still somehow i feel concerned too.
that sounds like ure immature and none the less pretty darn young.............13-15, im not saying u shouldn't kiss, but if ure making out than i guess ure not a child anymore..........the issue there than comes to pacifying ure guy if he does not respects what u dont want then he does not deserve for u to be called his girlfriend........
Hey young lady,tell your boy friend to wait until you get back in the car to make out.


Tell him you have friends that goes to the movies,they will tell your folks. That way he wont get mad,i hope.


Good luck.
tell him and when you do make out, make sure your in a spot that not many people are at. it's dark in the movies, so don't feel like someone is gona see you and tell. if they do see you they probebly won't tell, unless they know you really well, but if they do just ask them not to tell. don't worry.

colorsilk revlon

HELP!! i need a guys advice?

do u ever get really excited around ur gf or just a girl when ur with her and then get an uneasy feeling or wierd feeling when she leaves?? if u have, do u know why u get this feeling or how to make it go away?HELP!! i need a guys advice?
it sounds like he is having trust or insecurity issues when you are not with him reguardless of whether or not they are unfounded. you need to talk with him and find out what is really bothering him or reassure him that he has no reason to be concernedHELP!! i need a guys advice?
glad to help, good luck

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sounds like you dont trust someone.


have been with my girl for almost 2 years, and i dont stress when she goes out with her mates.


i know whos bed she is coming home too.


wthout trust, u dont have a relationship
Get her digits or myspace name and talk to her otherwise you'll be love sick for her until the next time you see her.
no I can't stand my wife. I get excited when she leaves.

Guys!! Help I need some guy advice.?

Okay, so I met this guy at camp and we were like REALLY into each other, and we were texting everyday. (he only lives 2 hours away) and he was really flirty and really sweet, and now he doesn't text me often, but when he does it's still REALLY flirty and he still says he likes me and all. So does he really or what?Guys!! Help I need some guy advice.?
yes, he likes you, he just has a life outside you, so don't get upset if he don't txt you.Guys!! Help I need some guy advice.?
Probably not. I'm thinking you were just the ';girl of the moment';.
hes probably got a gf.. move on.. hes an animal.x

Guys only plez, i need guy advice?

ok, my x and i broke up like two or three weeks ago, it was lik a mutual thing. He lived to far, and i would get the vibe he just want me ohysically when ever we were together. Now, i miss him. i call him, but i block my number, and he never answers, and i send him txts but he doesnt respond, today i sent him an e mail, hopefully he will write back. So i guess my question is, should i keep calling and making an effort? do i come off as clingy or anythin like that?Guys only plez, i need guy advice?
Please do not make any more attempts to contact him. If you do, you are digging yourself a big hole. There are plenty fishes in the sea. I am sorry for the cliches.





On a side note, most guys want sex in a relationship. Therefore breaking it off is good because he just want you for sex. If your ex responds and want to get back...he probably wants makeup sex.Guys only plez, i need guy advice?
I think he is doing this because he knows he has you at his feet and can do w/e he wants with you... show a lack of intrest on him and c if he really cares. if he calls you or contacts you after that then he might care.
The problem with a lot of relationships that they think it is for the best and so when they do talk it is a little of anger involve and they say things they don't mean and when it is all over and a few days go by they start to think and realise that it wasn't what they thought it would be and want to change it back. I would say that he has moved on and you need to let him go and you to need to find someone else.


I would say it is for the best because that long distance thing kind if sucks and you can find someone else that will tend to your needs right in your home town.
clingy? like electric lint? leave it go. save your self-respect and move on.
yes you r clingy. sorry if i too abrupt. just let it go. time will heal. nobody hate each other. move on and smell the fresh air .
You answered your own question. you are broke up. he does not want to be your friend, he does not want to talk to you, and he does not want you to text him any more....
give it up, he is just not the in to you

Should i call him? (guys advice please)?

i started talking to this guy at work and one day about two weeks ago when he was walking me to my car he said can i have you number so we can do something this week. i gave it to him and he gave me his. he didn't call and i saw him this past week and he said he had been really busy. would it be foolish of me to call him even he hasn't called me or by not calling does that mean he isn't interested? what would i say?Should i call him? (guys advice please)?
If he asked for your number he obviously likes you. Go ahead and call him. You don't know what he thinks until you do.Should i call him? (guys advice please)?
hes probably just reaalllyyy shy





i say you call him, theres nothin wrong with it, he might just be a shy guy like me
I think him not calling you just means he's nervous. You should call him if he isn't doing anything to move things along and just see what happens. Just ask him to lunch one day and see how things go. Worst thing that can happen is he says no and then you havea definite answer.
Best not to expect anything from him, stay in the friendzone.





If you ask him, you'd sound demanding.


If you call him, you'd sound expecting.





Either way, you'd pressure him or give the wrong impression. or you could hope for the best and maybe he will think positive things when you do your stuff.
Call him and ask him out, he can only say no, at least then you will know
If you want to call .... Go right ahead but if I were you I would wait it out and see if he call's tomorrow or somthing and when you see him at work on Monday just pop a question like... ';Did you go out this weekend?'; or somthing. If you call then It's like your begging. Never do that cause some guy's will take advantage.





Much luck with anything you do!

This is too all the guys i need your advice?

Im 17 years old...and im so so shy around guys that i like...but heres a question do you think shyness in a girl is sexy? idk and how would you help a girl get over her shyness?This is too all the guys i need your advice?
i think it's okay but somtimes when a girl is to shy a guy thinks that they arnt enterested and as for getting over it there are many sites and books on gaining self confidence im very shy too but i dont mind except for when i dont get the girl because of it :( but good luck :)This is too all the guys i need your advice?
ditto on the age here. Shyness is not sexy but cute.


I think that if a girl is shy, she's quiet, that attracts my attention. It's annoying if the girl i like is like yelling on the top of her lungs

Need a guys advice! PLEASE HELP!?

So my boyfriends 14 years older then me, i don't know how he feels about us an im scared to ask. I like him more then i tell. Every time i get really close to someone i run! An when i mean run i move to another state. i know i have commitment issues, but how do i know if a man that's 14 years older them me an has a son an been married is right for me? An how do i stop running? Im so tired of it i cant do it anymore!Need a guys advice! PLEASE HELP!?
Are you 60 and he's 74? If not, you're probably behaving this way intentionally. It sounds like you've set up a loser so that your only way out is to disappear. The loser part is him having a 14 yr old son. Any way you look at it, a man with an ex %26amp; a minor son is a disaster coming toward you. Try to think of a better type of relationship, and work toward that. Like a guy maybe 5 years older, with no ex and no kids who has a job, no STDs and maybe survived Iraq, and goes to church on Sunday (not Friday).Need a guys advice! PLEASE HELP!?
It all depends on your age and his position / status in life.


His maturity, education, job, house, car, insurance, reason for divorce, future, criminal history etc. etc.


If he is a good solid mature man of means and is seriously


interested in you then go for it..Get a Pre-Nup and marry him.


The 14 yrs. and the 8 yr. old son are not a problem.
well i'm a guy and i would say that if you realy want to know hes not cheating on you then you should not be afraid to ask who knows he could be realy cool... you never know until you ask. i hope this advise has given you thought.

colorsilk revlon

Dating tips.....guys advice!!?

ok.....when i'm out clubbing or whatever, even just socialising, can any guys give me some tips that for them would make me the one they'd wanna get with or even just talk to!?Dating tips.....guys advice!!?
I don't know what you look like, but it always helps to wear a good looking outfit. I am not talking about slutty, just something that looks attractive. Also helps to look like you are having a good time. You look more open and friendly that way. Guys do not like girls with attitudes and if you look like you have one guy will move on to someone else quick. Don't be afaid to talk to them either.Dating tips.....guys advice!!?
Smile. Women are smile-addicts. A few well-placed smiles, a happy attitude, some (non-erotic!) jokes here and there and you can win a woman鈥檚 heart faster than a handsome tall guy, who is grumpy.
guys are generally scared of large packs of girls. If you excuse your self to go to the bar for 5 mins, i sure someone will notice and try to seize the opportunity. It works for me
Just be yourself.

Need a guys advice! PLEASE HELP!?

So my boyfriends 14 years older then me, i don't know how he feels about us an im scared to ask. I like him more then i tell. Every time i get really close to someone i run! An when i mean run i move to another state. i know i have commitment issues, but how do i know if a man that's 14 years older them me an has a son an been married is right for me? An how do i stop running? Im so tired of it i cant do it anymore!Need a guys advice! PLEASE HELP!?
Are you 60 and he's 74? If not, you're probably behaving this way intentionally. It sounds like you've set up a loser so that your only way out is to disappear. The loser part is him having a 14 yr old son. Any way you look at it, a man with an ex %26amp; a minor son is a disaster coming toward you. Try to think of a better type of relationship, and work toward that. Like a guy maybe 5 years older, with no ex and no kids who has a job, no STDs and maybe survived Iraq, and goes to church on Sunday (not Friday).Need a guys advice! PLEASE HELP!?
well i'm a guy and i would say that if you realy want to know hes not cheating on you then you should not be afraid to ask who knows he could be realy cool... you never know until you ask. i hope this advise has given you thought.
It all depends on your age and his position / status in life.


His maturity, education, job, house, car, insurance, reason for divorce, future, criminal history etc. etc.


If he is a good solid mature man of means and is seriously


interested in you then go for it..Get a Pre-Nup and marry him.


The 14 yrs. and the 8 yr. old son are not a problem.

Dating tips.....guys advice!!?

ok.....when i'm out clubbing or whatever, even just socialising, can any guys give me some tips that for them would make me the one they'd wanna get with or even just talk to!?Dating tips.....guys advice!!?
I don't know what you look like, but it always helps to wear a good looking outfit. I am not talking about slutty, just something that looks attractive. Also helps to look like you are having a good time. You look more open and friendly that way. Guys do not like girls with attitudes and if you look like you have one guy will move on to someone else quick. Don't be afaid to talk to them either.Dating tips.....guys advice!!?
Smile. Women are smile-addicts. A few well-placed smiles, a happy attitude, some (non-erotic!) jokes here and there and you can win a woman鈥檚 heart faster than a handsome tall guy, who is grumpy.
guys are generally scared of large packs of girls. If you excuse your self to go to the bar for 5 mins, i sure someone will notice and try to seize the opportunity. It works for me
Just be yourself.

I need guy advice! (guys answer to!!)?

i am a freshman and i really like a guy is there any way i can flirt him or make myself more attractive to him?I need guy advice! (guys answer to!!)?
just get to know him. not so hard.I need guy advice! (guys answer to!!)?
in your attemp to attract him you might get something else be yourself if you are what he wants he will let you know
well it matters what kind of looks he likes, and im sure he will find you attractive anyway but just be your self and if he sees that im sure he will like you
hi there, i know your young and these type of feelings come along its natural, but be careful of that quick love thing, guys at his age, like to flirt and can lead to hurting your feelings. try to focus more on school. and not guys for right now, you are the women let them guys come to you, if you go to the guys first you will get played, because guy don't like when women come to easy, play hard.
Well hun, this depends, is he a very attractive guy? What type of personality does he have? high standards? And not that it should be a factor, but are you good looking? All of these things come into play when getting our attention...But if you are relatively pretty then try some cute outfits, dress to get his attention...And if all else fails, just plain tell him you want to go out sometime. hope this helps. :)
Just be yourself, most guys think it is very unattractive when anyone, especially a girl tries to hard. Just be open and tell him how you feel, as a guy there is nothing that is more attractive to me than when a girl is open and aggressive, not manly aggressive but strong willed. good luck
Put yourself in situations that make you available to talk to, make sure youare around, and every now and then look at him and make eye contact for a second or two then look down. this works. When i was in HS there were a few occasions where i had the opportunity to talk to a girl, but did get the nerve up and took a couple opportunities for me to finally do it. the more available you are the better your chances. Although dont spend your entire HS career doing it, if he doesnt approach you sooner or later he is probably just not interested.
If you have a class with him, take a seat next to him and just casually talk about the class, what you think of the prof, whatever. If you break the ice, you are making it a lot easier on him. If he likes you, that is the only opening he will need. Just be casual, you don't want to come on to him too hard or you will scare him away. It doesn't hurt to take a little bit more care on how you are dressing and how your hair looks. Personally, never been turned on by the girls that come in to class in their pjs, looking like they just crawled out of bed at 10am. On a side note, a freshman guy may not be looking for a relationship right away, but everyone is different, so go for it.

Guys advice Wanted!?

I WAS WONDERING WHEN I GUY WILL MOST LIKELY ASK YOU TO MARRY THEM, LIKE HOW LONG DO YOU HAVE TO BE TOGETHER? IVE KNOW MY BF FOR ALMOST 2 YEARS AND HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 9 MONTHS AND WE LOVE EACH OTHER VERY MUCH HE TOLD ME HE WANTS TO MARRY ME AND HAVE MY KIDS. I THINK I AM READY TO GET MARRIED BUT IM NOT SURE ABOUT HIM. IM 19 AND HES 25 SO IM THINKING IT WONT BE MUCH LONGER, AM I WRONG%26gt;Guys advice Wanted!?
if you are not sure how he feel then may you both need to


sit down and discussed this.. it about communication. he


has made it clear that he want to marry you.Guys advice Wanted!?
whats the rush? I have seen too many young marriages that end up in divorce with-in ten or less years. not saying you to don't love each other, but you have the rest or your lives to think about. College, jobs, where to live, rent or to buy,whose name is the house under if you do split up? not trying to seperate the both of you.


I have known couples that have gone together for years and not tied the knot, on the other hand couples have tied the knot only after a few weeks. Some are still together and some are not.
well first off i would never marry a girl who SHOUTS ALL THE TIME...








but for the facts





at 25 he has not firmly establish himself i na career


and at 19 to are WAYY to younbg to get married


if you have a kids now you will trap him and screw up his dreams and goals, emotionally you are way to immature to even grasp what marriage is, and your outlook and emotions will change as you get older


at 19 you are emtionally needy, way too needy and insecure.. hence the pressure to get married now


and you marriage will fail with a 90% failure rate for people in your age group, you have plenty of time ( geez wait until 30 or 35 )


a study just came out from the univesity of illinious by a Female Professor showing the longer you delay getting married, the lesser your chances of divorce.. of course you NEED to get an education and get a degree, this make you more valueable as a women.. and more important, once you been on your own with your own place, money, car you miht not want him anymore
Well to be honest, you are too young to get married and have kids. you need to explore, experience, date other people. you will regret it later and then your marriage will suffer because you would want to know what if....





trust me I know several women that made the mistake of marrying too young (at the time you don't realize it ) and think that everyone is against you.





but the truth is that he should be marrying someone his age, he probably got it out of his system while you have not. as you grow older and mature, love grows dim and then he is not giving you attention, you feel neglected and then you cheat. I would recommend, that you should not have a b/f at all.





enjoy life when you are young, why tie yourself when you have not accomplish your education goals yet? do you know what you want out of life (besides a family and marriage) do you have a goal? I say prepared yourself so that you are not depending on a man to support you. only then you will be mature and ready to have a family and get married.
Thats ironic, im 19 and the girl i want to date is 25, i posted a question earlier....





Anyways marriage is quite the commitment and most marriages end up in divorce when started at such a young age.





Save your self the trouble and test out the waters longer
Honestly, there is no possible way any of us can know something like that. You've known him for two years and talk to him daily, and even you don't know. FWIW, I personally think 19 is too young to get married. I was 29 and my wife was 27 when we got married--our first and only marriage for both of us. I think you are asking the wrong question.








Kent in SD

GUYS ADVICE PLZ!!!!!!!!!!?

Plz guys i need your advice!!!GUYS ADVICE PLZ!!!!!!!!!!?
Yes definately cute and a little smile with it makes it absolutely adorable, we fall head over heels for it

colorsilk revlon

Guys' Advice Needed!?

What is the perfect gift you think you could ever get from a girl for your birthday? And please be creative, say something other than sex or buzz. This is crucial to me!! Thank You in advance!Guys' Advice Needed!?
Well right now a good gift for me would be the perfect girl lol. I don't know him so I can't tell you what to get him but I think you should also cook him a birthday dinnerGuys' Advice Needed!?
uummm... maybe a... necklace? with both your names on it?


that麓s what my girlfriend gave me... I have had it on ever since