Guys advice Wanted!?

I WAS WONDERING WHEN I GUY WILL MOST LIKELY ASK YOU TO MARRY THEM, LIKE HOW LONG DO YOU HAVE TO BE TOGETHER? IVE KNOW MY BF FOR ALMOST 2 YEARS AND HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 9 MONTHS AND WE LOVE EACH OTHER VERY MUCH HE TOLD ME HE WANTS TO MARRY ME AND HAVE MY KIDS. I THINK I AM READY TO GET MARRIED BUT IM NOT SURE ABOUT HIM. IM 19 AND HES 25 SO IM THINKING IT WONT BE MUCH LONGER, AM I WRONG%26gt;Guys advice Wanted!?
if you are not sure how he feel then may you both need to


sit down and discussed this.. it about communication. he


has made it clear that he want to marry you.Guys advice Wanted!?
whats the rush? I have seen too many young marriages that end up in divorce with-in ten or less years. not saying you to don't love each other, but you have the rest or your lives to think about. College, jobs, where to live, rent or to buy,whose name is the house under if you do split up? not trying to seperate the both of you.


I have known couples that have gone together for years and not tied the knot, on the other hand couples have tied the knot only after a few weeks. Some are still together and some are not.
well first off i would never marry a girl who SHOUTS ALL THE TIME...








but for the facts





at 25 he has not firmly establish himself i na career


and at 19 to are WAYY to younbg to get married


if you have a kids now you will trap him and screw up his dreams and goals, emotionally you are way to immature to even grasp what marriage is, and your outlook and emotions will change as you get older


at 19 you are emtionally needy, way too needy and insecure.. hence the pressure to get married now


and you marriage will fail with a 90% failure rate for people in your age group, you have plenty of time ( geez wait until 30 or 35 )


a study just came out from the univesity of illinious by a Female Professor showing the longer you delay getting married, the lesser your chances of divorce.. of course you NEED to get an education and get a degree, this make you more valueable as a women.. and more important, once you been on your own with your own place, money, car you miht not want him anymore
Well to be honest, you are too young to get married and have kids. you need to explore, experience, date other people. you will regret it later and then your marriage will suffer because you would want to know what if....





trust me I know several women that made the mistake of marrying too young (at the time you don't realize it ) and think that everyone is against you.





but the truth is that he should be marrying someone his age, he probably got it out of his system while you have not. as you grow older and mature, love grows dim and then he is not giving you attention, you feel neglected and then you cheat. I would recommend, that you should not have a b/f at all.





enjoy life when you are young, why tie yourself when you have not accomplish your education goals yet? do you know what you want out of life (besides a family and marriage) do you have a goal? I say prepared yourself so that you are not depending on a man to support you. only then you will be mature and ready to have a family and get married.
Thats ironic, im 19 and the girl i want to date is 25, i posted a question earlier....





Anyways marriage is quite the commitment and most marriages end up in divorce when started at such a young age.





Save your self the trouble and test out the waters longer
Honestly, there is no possible way any of us can know something like that. You've known him for two years and talk to him daily, and even you don't know. FWIW, I personally think 19 is too young to get married. I was 29 and my wife was 27 when we got married--our first and only marriage for both of us. I think you are asking the wrong question.








Kent in SD