Need a guys advice! PLEASE HELP!?

So my boyfriends 14 years older then me, i don't know how he feels about us an im scared to ask. I like him more then i tell. Every time i get really close to someone i run! An when i mean run i move to another state. i know i have commitment issues, but how do i know if a man that's 14 years older them me an has a son an been married is right for me? An how do i stop running? Im so tired of it i cant do it anymore!Need a guys advice! PLEASE HELP!?
Are you 60 and he's 74? If not, you're probably behaving this way intentionally. It sounds like you've set up a loser so that your only way out is to disappear. The loser part is him having a 14 yr old son. Any way you look at it, a man with an ex %26amp; a minor son is a disaster coming toward you. Try to think of a better type of relationship, and work toward that. Like a guy maybe 5 years older, with no ex and no kids who has a job, no STDs and maybe survived Iraq, and goes to church on Sunday (not Friday).Need a guys advice! PLEASE HELP!?
well i'm a guy and i would say that if you realy want to know hes not cheating on you then you should not be afraid to ask who knows he could be realy cool... you never know until you ask. i hope this advise has given you thought.
It all depends on your age and his position / status in life.


His maturity, education, job, house, car, insurance, reason for divorce, future, criminal history etc. etc.


If he is a good solid mature man of means and is seriously


interested in you then go for it..Get a Pre-Nup and marry him.


The 14 yrs. and the 8 yr. old son are not a problem.