Guy advice (by girls or guys I don't care)?

Well theres a guy and a good friend of mine told me today at school that he really likes me, and he told her on the phone thast he was going to ask me out. And I like him, but not the way he acts when we're dating. I've dated him before and broke up with him for the way he acted, and broke up with him for his behaviors before. But we like eachother again. I don't know if he'd change if I talk to him about it, what do you think?Guy advice (by girls or guys I don't care)?
talk to him or it will happen again, if he really likes you, he will changeGuy advice (by girls or guys I don't care)?
Honestly, don't waste your time. If you already know that there are things about him you don't like, don't bother. No reason to think he'll change THIS time. The only person you can change is YOU. Spend some time thinking about the kind of person you deserve to be with and then drop all of the deadbeats!
I think you should talk it over with him, then, from his response, you can better decide if you think you should pursue it any further.Good luck;)
well.. i'm always for communication .... of course you can hint and not be straightforward...


Anyway - if you like generally like each other - you may overlook the small differences and hey.... maybe he is just nervous or something...


;)
just be friends................
I don't know exactly how old you are but you sound to be about jr high-high school aged. If this is the case then I would advise you to take this slow. You don't really need to have a long term commitment or anything like that in high school, trust me I know how that goes and it never ends pretty.





I would suggest a semi-friend relationship where you guys stick to mainly being friends but experiment with dates every now and then and see how it goes. The whole bf/gf status should come when you guys decide that you want to make that sort of commitment. There is nothing wrong with taking it slow and easing into things, this way you guys can still hang out and have fun but if you find that dating isn't working then you can still be friends without it being awkward.
Simple resolution: Turn eachother into a booty call.
Talk to him it helps alot to get everything out. Skip small talk it gets you no where. Live every second like it was ur last one
Well man don't change they sometimes mature.


Depents on his age I guess give it another try if he acts the same way then bye bye!
no....dont trust him...if this has already happened twice.....there's no reason he'd change for a 3rd try....give him up and look for someone better
give him a 3 chance maybe he has changed
TALK! There is no need for you to suffer. Then again, he may think it is cute the way he acts and it could turn worse.





If you are to begin a serious relationship you have to be honest to yourself and to him.





If he changes, you will both be happy.





Good luck!
Explain very clearly what you expect from a person you are dating and how you expect them to act If he can not live up to that do not date him again
Just talk to him. All of us are not like that.
Sure, give him another try. But let him know that you didn't put up with his nonsense before and you won't put up with it now, either.


Best of luck!
He knows that he can get ';IT' from you at any time; it's becoming abusive ?
just tell him if i go out with you please change your attitude around me or we wont be together
I don't think anyone would change. Maybe you should just move on. There are too many fish in the sea to want to change just one.
if you don't like the way he is when you are dating then you don't like him. just stay friends
I'm a guy and I have a lot of experience in this. 1st you can not change anyone, you can do thing to encourage them to change their behavior but it up to them to actually do it. If you already been down that road once, most likely the same road will be waiting for you.
Do you think it is a relationship worth pursuing?





Why do you want to settle for someone if you do not like the way he acts when you are dating? If he does that when you are dating imagine what he would be like if you were to get married at some point? Guys dont change unless they want to or they have to, but for a relationship he probably does not see a need to stop acting the way he does.
I had this prob B4 and the best thing u could do is walk away.


u can still b his friend but noin more. don't ask him 2 change bcuz thats who he is. if u don't like him how he is then just move on 2 some 1 a lot better. and if u really do like this guy a lot u would accept him 4 who he is and deal with it no matter wat!Good luck nd make the best choice!!!





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Some guy they have change when they get more mature. Some dont.. but they learn the past. Maybe he change give him a try. Maybe u feel regrets one day if u will not give him a try.
i say talk to him and see if he really changed. or just go for it.
why not go out as best friends and see if he really had changed
He won't change. He may say he will, but he won't. Trust me. I dated the same guy on and off for years because he was awesome when we weren't a couple, and then when we were he became the opposite of awesome. It's been ten years. He's still the same person. If you really care about someone, and they're worth the relationship, you don't have to change them. You can't mold somebody into what you want them to be.
if you guys are still young, he won't change. if he was a dick before, he probably is still a dick. if he can't even call you up and ask you out himself, then he's not mature enough for a relationship.
well...you won't until you talk to him about it...let him know whats on your mind...if you still like him and want to give it a second chance...than talk to him and let him know why it didn't work out before (if didn't already know)...if he really like you and want to be with you again...he will try to fix his behavior...if not...than theres more guys out there...
give it a try and if he starts doing those things again tell him so he knows what is wrong and talk it out of its a personality thing sometimes people cant change that ,,and if it rude or bad behavior then its his choice if he wants to loose you again,but dont stay with someone whos not treating you the way you want to be treated..
Well i think you should give it another go coz u guys mightav grown up a bit since the last time, if it still dont work out then its probably better just friends.


But you really gotta go out with him, or else you`ll never kno eh?


Think abt why it never worked the first time round and decide if thats a big enuff problem for it to never work out ;)
Don't do it. You broke up with him for a good reason. No going back