Need girls or guys advice?

ok what do you consider a hookup? %26amp; if a guy tells you he's not ready for a girlfriend does that mean he just wants to hook up or hes willing to see how things will go. plz helpNeed girls or guys advice?
If tells you he's not ready for a girlfriend it means he just looking to get physical. Most likely he thinks he all that and a sack-o-sugar and wants to keep his options open because he has his eye on more than just you. I guess the question would be what do you want? If its just a touchy-feely thing then you know what your in for. But, if its more than that your in for trouble. Like most relationships in life, you need to be on the same page and have the same goal in order to have success. Thinking you can change the other persons ways of thinking about you or the relationship is just a wasteof time.





But I might be wrong and the poor fellow thinks he has to play it cool and be the hard to get type. In reality he might really want to be serious but just ddoesn'tknow how to. The way things are pportrayedthese days in the media and pop culture I dont thing young people rreallyknow how to act with one another. Every where you turn your confronted with twisted ideas about personal relationship with one another. These media ideas rarely work in the real world and only look good on camera. So this poor fellow might just think this is the way he has to act in order to get your affection.





You be the judge. Need girls or guys advice?
If a guy says he is not ready for a girlfriend, it just means he wants sex with no strings attached. He doesn't want to have to pay for you or call you if he doesn't feel like it. Also a hook up is kind of like a one-night stand in my eyes. You just get together, and nothing more comes of it.
it means that he wants to hang out with the guys, with no baggage and that means you, you are the baggage. He is not ready.
hooking up meens going to go out with some one





Example:


';hey im going to hook up with some hot chick u with me';