Sunday, August 22, 2010

Guys advice please..?

my bf and i have been together for 2 yrs. we used to have sex sometimes 3 times a night the first couple months. then after that it was usualy once a night or so. we have a child and live together now and its been 2 weeks! i dont mentioned anythign at night when were in bed but when i do bring it up he says he is just tired from work and hes sorry. he works outside between 32 to 56 hours a week. what u guys think?Guys advice please..?
Sex takes a lot of energy, If he is working over 40 hours a week it becomes a drain. Also you cant expect sex to be as passionate as it was in the beginning because you are used to each other now. To start with make sure he is physically ok and there is not a source of stress you dont know about. Has he gotten out of shape and it is just to much work. Is your relationship ok? I dont think it is something he is doing wrong. Have you gained weight? If he has problems getting erections, he might be embarrassed to say so. Assuming he isnt watching porn it sounds like you two need to work at this to find a solution together. Id say something is bothering him. Guys advice please..?
I'm thinking the thrill is gone. You need to spice it up a bit if you want more sex. If you're allright with what you're getting ...then let it go, maybe he is tired. Maybe he's tired of the ';old routine';.
welcome to the married life! please checks your bags and your sexual appetite at the door, you won't be needing either!
get some vitamins for him , if that don't work he is cheating on you .

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