Thursday, August 19, 2010

How 2 get him back? GUYS ADVICE!?

guys i hav an ex who i REALLY like and he has a new gf [the guy and his new gf go 2 another school] and i want him back! how do i do dat?How 2 get him back? GUYS ADVICE!?
Gee, girl, I've been there, and I know how you feel.


Now my ex %26amp; I are back together. :)


I got back together with my ex just recently. We were actually friends after we broke up, and we were completely comfortable with each other. Well, not right after we broke up. It took a few months for us to get us talking to each other and feel comfortable. He got a new girlfriend, but we were still friends. I suddenly fell back in love with him, but I didn't tell him or anyone else.


His gf then broke up with him and he confessed to me that he loved me, and he loved me all along even when he was with his gf. He just didn't want to hurt her feelings. He was just waiting for her to break up with him. So now we're back together :) I kind of wish I confessed to him first while he was with his gf, so that we could've gotten back together earlier.


Honey, maybe you just gotta confess to him. You never know, he might be feeling the same way.


But i don't know. That's just my story. It doesn't happen to everyone..How 2 get him back? GUYS ADVICE!?
This is my answer to every single female with man issues on this site...hope you like it ;) Pass it on to all your lady friends that need to hear this! I posted it on myspace.. feel free to do the same..Just give Danni the credit!





If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't ';be friends.'; A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think ';it will get better.'; You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. ! He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Give him a call and ask him out. If he says no, you can move on.
Try correcting his gf.
Back off. He has a girlfriend.
u shuld wait and see if the relationship is going good. if it is going downhill, then make ur move.
invite him to a sexy time

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