I need your guys advice on this asap!!!?

ok how do i convince my mom that i can go to san fransico alone on a plane. i told her i need a break from you guys and that im growing up and she has too accept it. she wontt buy anythingg help!!!I need your guys advice on this asap!!!?
don't give up. She doesn't have the right to tell you what and what not to do! If she doesn't give in, invite a friend to come along so you won't be on the plane alone and you will be with someone.


I really hope i helped and hope you get to go to san fransico!:)I need your guys advice on this asap!!!?
As the mom of a 17-year-old myself, I would need more information before saying yes.





Try not to plead or argue and if, in the end, the answer is no accept it as gracefully as you can. This will go a long way to help you get a yes next time.





Some of my questions would include:


Where will you be staying, are you going to visit family/friends?





Have you been a person of your word in the past, i.e., can you be trusted to behave appropriately when you're on your own?





How much is it going to cost and are you helping to pay?





Do you have respect the potential danger inherent to visiting a major city?





Do you have a planned general itinerary of what you will be doing during your visit?





All of this may sound intrusive, but truthfully if your mom was visiting San Francisco you would know generally where she was and what her plans were.





My son recently visited New Orleans (we live in a city of about 430,000) and even though he's pretty trustworthy, practically grown, went with a church group, and I had an itenerary it made me very nervous for him to go.
how old are you?





if you're under 16 I wouldnt be letting you go either





OK, at 17 if you have proven yourself to be responsible up to this point, and have NOT been in any major trouble otherwise, I as a parent would consider it. I might have insisnted my daughter go with another girl, traveling alone can be more dangerous.





Be persistent, but not whiney. Tell her you responsible and can handle the trip, I let my daughter travel at taht age. If you cant go on a short trip by 17 . . . . . . . . something is wrong.
no offense but you sound really spoiled...


telling her that you ';need a break'; and that she ';has to accept it'; won't help you at allll, trust me.


as for advice: is there a real REASON you need to go to san fransico? if so, stress this reason. if there isn't, just say that you want to show her your independence.


PS if you're ';growing up'; enough to travel alone, you should really be able to buy the tickets yourself.
first of all, how old are you? if you are still in your teens it really isn't safe to go alone. Is there any way a friend could come with you or something? that will make your 'rents more likely to say yes. Mostly all parents are apprehensive about that stuff, and i don't think they will let you go alone. If taking a friend can't work, you could ask to go somewhere closer to you, to prove you can go alone, and eventually they'll let you go to san francisco...





good luck %26amp; hope i helped :)





Lukas
i wish i knew the answer to that im trying to convince her to let me to alone to panama!!!!! ive been trying for like 3 or 4 years btw lol
What are you going to do in SF?





Saying that you need to take a break from them makes you sound very immature.
Tell her your going to kill yourself if she doesn't let you. That will work.





Please don't really kill yourself though!!
Maybe you could do some jobs around the house or arrange to cook dinner one night, that might show her you are mature?
Tell her you'll call everyday so she knows your alright. :)
it all depends what are you going for? If you really want her to let you go give her a reason. A GOOD reason.
MY MOM lETSz Mi GO TO MESiKO AlONE SiNCE i WAS lIKE 10.lOL
NEED MORE DETAILS!
well then you should be thankful you have such a caring mum
um tell her fine ill walk
how old are you....?
it depends....how old are you?


well if you just need time away from them stay at a friends for a while.


or save up money to go yourself.
hmmm....tell her that u are old enough and that she has to let u go some day