Thursday, July 29, 2010

Seeking a guys advice?

Professionally, a woman is appealing to look at in addition to being funny, intelligent and very thoughtful of others. Socially women in a committed relationship dislike her because she is single. She is active in many projects including volunteer work and an interesting career. She has many friends. Single guys look at her, but will not ask her out. Why?Seeking a guys advice?
I would say intimidation and a fear of rejection. Obviously she projects and strong willed independent woman, SHE IS NOT WEAK.


She obviously has her life together and it may seem she is not waiting on someone to rescue her.


She is not a damsel in distress to say. She may seem like she doesn't need a prince and that leave men to wonder, what do they have to offer?


She has the life, she has a great career so she is paid and she doesnt need rescuing because on the surface she seem to have no problems.Seeking a guys advice?
Cause they thing she don't need'em. She's doing what she wants and doesn't need anybody! Common goodie goods get lonely! If your looking for a girl like that. Talk with the chick. She probably express everything about herself! And then you won't have fear to ask her out!
when i see these girls...the only thing i can think of is how to move in for the kill and back away...she would prolly make you commit to somthin like a relationship...and i dont want that...no real player like myself does
coz guys tend to fear women with that kind of class thinking that they are out of her league... plus guys also tend to fear rejection
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i guess they are shy
Cause SOME men are afraid of rejection from a good looking women. I would personally say to myself she is out of my league so I wouldnt bother, unless she showed a little interest then the situation changes.
They are probably just shy. If she has all these characteristics and is pretty I would be shy. They probably think she is too good for them.
probably shy, but hey, tell her to contact me, id love to talk to her.
The most beautiful women rarely get asked out because guys are often afraid of rejection.





Its a modern day phenomena.
Maybe she is way to hot %26amp; out of thier league. Afraid to be shot down! They could be intimidated.
She could be too strong = unattainable.





My sister yells at her pit-bull, and it obeys her. The dog could probably kill her but it obeys. It looks at her, and estimates the fight in her - not the physical capacity but the fight, and the fight that is in the girl is bigger than the fight that is in the dog. The dog knows that it will lose before the fight ever starts - so the fight never starts.





If the girl telegraphs through her strength that she is not winnable then, like the dog, the men will know a fight they can only win by not fighting.
she doesn't hold herself like she's approachable. If she's got the I'm better then you attitude, then guys won't even try. Professional guys are smarter then to waste their time; they've already gotten burned. She needs to be more approachable.
They think shes got it all together and they dont have a shot. (maybe) .





We'll risk our homes on a poker hand but not our feelings at the risk of being publicly shot down.
ive always wanted to know that.
Guys could be envious too, or inside don't feel worthy enough to date her. Thats a possibility too. It could be something about her personality that doesn't mesh well with some guy too. I personally would love to date a woman like that who has a head on her shoulders, maybe you just have not been in the right place at the right time.

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