I need advice i prefer a guys advice?

me and my husband had a close relationship so last night i told him i think i like his friend i mean i have no feelings for him.i love my husband and i couldn't imagine cheatrin on him i didn't want him to take it the way he did hes told me things like this b4 and i didn't get mad in your opinion how should i make him fell better i feel badI need advice i prefer a guys advice?
first of all, that was pretty stupid of you to say. guys never want to hear that. we want to think we're the only guy you find attractive. theres nothing you can do but keep reassuring him that he's your man and thats not going to change. let him know that noone can take his place. eventually, he'll get over it.I need advice i prefer a guys advice?
I see, it is ok for him to want sex with you-his wife and another woman but it isnt ok for you to like his friend and want the same. That is just stupid. Jediknight is wrong, wrong,wrong. How is he to get mad after you allowed him to have a threesome with another woman. It all goes back to men and them having their way. He is a big baby and tell him to get over it. He said you can have a threesome with whoever you wanted and you choose who it is now tell him its your turn and go for it.
go out for a dinner tell him how much u care n love him. later say soory n stuuufs liek dat iy will b over soon
Dear,


Your husband's isnt different from the way most men would have acted. If u r very sure that ur husband prior to this time trust and cherished you. Take out time to explain to him what you meant by liking his firend and the degree of ur likeness towards his friend. Naturally, every man would feel very insecure with such an open declaration of likeness for his friend. Promise and reassure him of your unfettered, uncompromising and sincere Love for him. Take out time, prepare his favorite meals and drinks. Dine under the candle light. He will definitely understand.





Wishing you luck in your marriage.


Stay Blessed.
that whole threesome thing is not normal...
Threesomes are a bad idea is marriage, but if you do it be sure to post the pictures on your 360
It's normal for a woman to rip a man's heart out like that.





Women, in general, are horrible at communicating exactly what they mean.





The best way to handle it is to really figure out what you meant by ';I like your friend';, and say it in the most specific, direct, and detailed way possible.





Also, what makes you mad, and what makes your husband mad, are going to be totally different. So don't ever expect his reaction to things to be similar to yours.
if you like his friend, then take him to bed otherwise you will never know if you were right to like him or not.
give him some time, but first explain to him what you really meant, otherwise it is going to bother him for a wle, if you dont explain what you mean, then good luck
Can't have your cake and eat it too..... I'd sure luv to have a 3sum with my gf and another girl..... But no way would I want to share her with anotha brotha!!! My ex told me that was her fantasy(two dudes), but she left me for a loser!! Now he has to put up with her sl*ty behavior!! LOL





Formula for Disaster!!! If you do it your marriage could go down in flames!!!!!!!!!1