I met this guy on the net, he is very polite and very good to talk to but there is a age difference, i did meet him once in person in a coffee shop, all is good but he is like 10 yrs older than me, i really like this guy a lot. I am still a virgin and don't know what to do or how ? i am meeting him this weekend and he stays alone, I am a little scared %26amp; excited, need your advice, please advice, how and what should i do ?Need girls %26amp; guys advice, Thank u?
this is very good for u that you knew some one very close.you must continue your relation.you have said,';I am still a virgin and don't know what to do or how'; it is not that necessary to know it will go everything fine continue your relation and stay in contact with me i will be glad to meet you in my id- never_ending720@yahoo.com byeNeed girls %26amp; guys advice, Thank u?
1 STAY A VIRGIN
2..don't go and meet him without anyone knowing where and when
3..just be yourself
4. no matter how much you like him talk alot and don't let him know your a virgin(keep it a secret)
5.ask alot of question about what kind of relationship he's looking for, what kind has he been in, why did it end.
6..don't kiss or touch until your 15 date..kiss on the cheek is good don't let it touch your lips
7. if you have too make sure you use protection
8...see rule one
9..don't believe everything you hear
10...remember the answers and latter on ask again to make sure it matches.
there are alot of germs ..killer...stalkers...rapist out there
don't keep this thing a secret tell a close friend and make sure she know where your going what time you got the go to the bathroom and text her if you have to
BE SAFE......STAY A VIRGIN your not missing anything by having sex now and alot of responsibility and problem can come with it. the joy doesn't last that long when it not that right.
hey , he is only wants ur virginity.
so don;t meet him in alone. as u said he is 10 ys older so there'll b nothing for ur relation in future.
so just take him as a frnd, that's it
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Ok i met my now fiance of 2 years over myspace we are living togethere and have a beautiful baby so that really don't matter as long as your sure hunny. Also age isn't nothing but a number babe. And if you go to his place and he wants things to go further and you do too then just go with the flow but if you don't want nothing to happen then just tell him you just want to see how things go and tell him your scared and you don't think your ready. If he can't respect you then leave. Take a cell phone sweety. Cause some people you can't trust but like you said you've already met him in person so no biggie. But have fun, Hope I helped.
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i didn't even finish reading you met someone on the net hella crazy don't go for it do it or buy it
Oh that sounds scary. Not to sound cliche but you have seen the movies.. Don't go!!! Stay in a public place where you have witneses.
age is but a number. Seriously, unless it's illegal, or he's your grandfather's age. But as long as this guy makes you happy, there is no reason you shouldn't be with him. But make sure you know his background and make sure he isn't a psycho or something
ya i would definitly say dont go, i know youve talked to him on the phone and stuff and met him before but maybe go to a movie or something first.
If you're having second thoughts on whether you should meet the guy then don't go and make up an excuse, or if you really do want to then take someone with you. It's not worth pursuing a relationship that you aren't even sure you want. Good luck =]
only go is you feel like you really know him. you may think you do, but i'm not sure you do.
you say you've seen him in a coffee shop one time.
plus make sure it's not illegal.
and don't do anything you don't want.
also, if you are even a little bit scared then you obviously don't feel as comfortable as you're telling yourself.
be safe girl.
OK..but don't ...it is not good ask u r parents ..if they wish go and marry
well there shouldn't ever be an age difference that you should worry about. i know the rumor has it that old guys are more experienced and they like to do this and that. but that is not all true.. if this guy is not a pervert..you are fine girl. lol ane what are you excited about? so i can help you out with that part. so like message me or something.
My dear... dnt fall for such relationships...
Secondly how can U go alone and meet such a person whom U have known over the net but met only once in person... On wht trust R U going to meet him alone where he stays????
There has been many such cases where serial killings,rapes,murders, etc have taken place.. So my dear,meet him out in public places and try not to encourage any further relationships with him and dnt disclose further details about urself to him.
1) if you met him on the net thats a little creepy .
#2) hes obv. gonna be mor eexpierenced than you %26amp; might want t ohave sex, so are you mentally %26amp; physically ready for that; i dont think so.
#3) my advice is you should'nt go out with him %26amp; find someone else your own age range!
a little warning alarm just went off in my head as i read this.
you say there's a 10 year age difference... if you're 30 and he's 40, no big deal... but it sounds more like you're under 18 and he isn't.
if that is the case, personally, i would stay away. people have different maturity levels, and different perceptions of boundary lines.
but if you have your heart set on going to meet him, tell SOMEONE where you will be and bring your phone, and if things start to go in a bad direction, leave. I read a book a few years ago, based on a true story, where a teen girl meets an older man on the internet, and it turns out he said he was 20 but was really 40, and tried to take advantage of her.
my advice is to just BE CAREFUL.
Hey, an age difference shouldn't make a difference in a relationship. Just be careful. If he tries to force sex on you...then you may need to end this relationship. He sounds like a nice enough person. All you really need to do is be careful =)
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just by you asking means that you really don't want to and that you want others to tell you that you shouldn't
if you have to ask then it isn't worth doing because you don't want it... i would not go in my case the guy ended up being a perv. i also am a virgin and that made things worse because that was all the asshole could think about
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