Guys advice please... why hasn't he talked yet?

ok so there is this guy who has admitted he liked me not to me but to people i know, and have seen him watching me and checking me out. The person he told told him i have a boyfriend..which they didn't know me and my boyfriend are kind of complicated right now... but i really think this guy is cute... so i got up the courage and asked him to be my friend on facebook and he hasn't said anything yet, and i even left a cute funny message when i asked him to be my friend... he does seem extremely shy though so why hasn't he said anything?Guys advice please... why hasn't he talked yet?
He may not be an obsessive Facebook user, which is a good thing. If he likes you he'll get in touch. He may be trying to think of something to say. If you see him ask him about your message. Say something like ';I thought you were ignoring me'; In a jokey way. See what he says.Guys advice please... why hasn't he talked yet?
because he thinks you have a boyfriend.


if he is normally shy, he'll be even more so if he thinks you have a boyfriend.


he seems pretty decent to not try and make a move on you because you already have a bf.


In my opinion you and yout ';complicated'; bf should break up and you should make the first move with this guy, to let him know you are available.
He has'nt said anything because he now knows you have a boy friend, the best thing to do at this point in time would be to leave him be but still try to talk to him or even flirt with him just for fun dough, then maybe eventually he'll come around, good luck.
Yeah, he's probably shy and not very confident. You may need to be extremely forward.
well if you have a boyfriend you dont need to be flirting.. and if you want to pursue this guy you needa dump your boyfriend complications or not.
Shy guys get intimidated by girls. Make an effort to get to know him, and he will do the same for you.





Good luck!
he is shy cuz your a beautiful girl and is nervous he'll mess things up with such an amazing girl
probably because you have a boyfriend obviously. youd have better luck if you were single
b/c he is unsure how he truly feels, dont jump over him, cause they get shy and embarrase too!
maybe deep inside he hates you, with passion
because he knows you have a boyfriend!


{sorry I'm not a guy[= }
he's shy...go ovr to him n say i heard u like me n i like u too...wna hang out...c a movie...sumthing like that
He sounds very shy, which is natural around his age. Shy people sometimes are mistaken for conceited or stuck up, but are really just afraid of rejection and don't know how to respond socially. Some of my best friends were painfully shy, and I have found them just the sweetest people who genuinely care about other people and try hard not to hurt others because they know what is feels like to get hurt.





He may also not think it right to get involved, even on a friendship basis, with somebody who has a boyfriend. He likes you in a boy/girl way and not a friendship way, so he may not want to put his foot wrong with another guy. You know, not wanting to ';poach'; on another guys ';territory';, or some other caveman type of thoughts all too common to guys.





So, if you really like this boy and you and your current boyfriend are not getting along you might want to officially break up in order to be available when you do meet cute boys you are interested in. It is rather messy to get involved with more than one at a time, which is what dating is all about. Going steady means you only ';date'; one boy, but just dating means you can date multiple boys. Then, when you find one who is extra special to you then you can try out the going steady part to see where it goes.





It is up to you how you decide to deal with your romantic entanglements, though I am just giving a bit of advice.





If you prefer to you can ask him again, only do it through a note at school you hand to him yourself. Trying to communicate through a bevy of friends leads to confusion and usually ends up with hurt feelings. It is far better to just gather up courage and meet challenges head on. Again, it is totally up to you.