In need of guy advice... Help from guys or girls opinions?

Ok so i was in this love triangle and I chose the wrong guy, so now i want to go back and make the right decision, but the guy i like a lot says he just stopped liking me. His friends and everyone think we would work together well, but I don't know how I should get him back. He says he's confused. What should I do from here. The worst part is that he's graduating in June, and I don't want to loose my opportunity with him.In need of guy advice... Help from guys or girls opinions?
Easier said than done, but back off a little. Persuing him isn't gonna make him want you again. When you give him a little space %26amp; let him see that yeah, you like him, but he's NOT the center of your universe.. he may respect you more. Your only chance at keeping this guy is to step back just a little. He's already told you he's not interested anymore. So you can, a: Keep pushing him for an answer as to why.. and push the subject until he really starts to dislike you. Or, b: let the situation ride itself out. Ignore him a little and let him know it's whatever. Play it off like you don't care, even if you do.





The first route won't get him back. At least with the second route, somtimes it works for us. When a guy thinks you're not interested, sometimes is when he sees you as a callenge again and wants to get your attention again.





Guys love a challenge. They'll always go for the girl who plays it cool %26amp; gives them a chase, not the one who throws herself at him. Be the cool girl, play it like you don't mind. He'll respect you more.In need of guy advice... Help from guys or girls opinions?
Just keep talking to him, he'll come around.





I have had this girl been talking to me for 5 years, yea I may have been with other girls, but in the course of the five years of negative bickering I have came to realize it may be more than a disagreement between two people. I find myself wanting to be with her, she has raised my interest level so much that I want to have sex with her and actually have the AFTER SEX talk. I care a lot about this girl, and she cares a lot what I think of her, so I am finally realizing I have a heart for her.





It may not take you 5 years, because I am such a stubborn man, but just give it some time and keep talking to him, and see if the outcome is positive or negative. Just don't harass him. If you see progress maybe then you talk to him about this stuff. Then go from there.
This is going to sound extremely dorky:





A triangle = 螖 = the greek letter ';delta'; = change





桅 = flux





螖桅 = change in flux [and you want to ';fight the change';]





Conclusion: your love triangle is compromised. Fight the change that is your new found love, in order to live your life to the fullest.
He sounds like he was hurt. I would tell him how sorry I was that I hurt him, and that I really wanted to be with him, and then leave the ball in his court.





No one likes to be second choice. I wouldn't... Put yourself in his shoes.





If he really likes you, he may forgive you. But I wouldn't rush him.


That will only push him away.





Good Luck!
same thing happened to me except i was in his position and honestly tell him that you were wrong and beg and hope it goes good for you and tell him that you want to talk about it and hope for the best. cause it hurts to be on that side to be second best at first then they realize that you were the right one. so be prepared to fight for it
well b4 hes gone you should go up to him and ask him what he is confused 'bout and see where it goes from there. . have an honest talk with him and open yourself up. . explain to him how you pick the wrong guy.
Just lay it all on the line... whatever decision he makes you'll just have to accept it. It kinda sounds like he already has made up his mind. If you don't want to lose him then ask if he wouldn't mind keeping in contact as friends.
give him some time to figure things out,


try telling him that u have feeling towards him and that u made the wrong decision. and want a second chance.





good luck u still have 2months
dont chase him off. if he knows u like him that is all u can do. he has to make up his mind. give him some space and maybe that same fear of him not seeing u after he graduated will set in.
You already did.
You may already have lost him but talking honestly can work wonders!
You missed your chance.
too late take responsibilities for ur actions but there is still time make ur move now instead of later