What does it mean when a guy says this??? Guys advice please.

Yeah, I want to make a go of it to see if we could make it in a relationship, but I was confused before we started going out and now I'm even more confused. I'm just not in a place in my life where I want to be right now and I ruined all my chances before. I'm just tired (works 2 jobs), %26amp; I can't think right now. I just need time to think, there's not enough hours in a day to take care of everything. What does it mean when a guy says this??? Guys advice please.
DONT read him word-for-word.





He's whining. And you should pinch him for being such a worrywart.What does it mean when a guy says this??? Guys advice please.
The guy seems overworked. Just give him some space. Let him breathe, working 2 jobs would be a *****. Talk to him when he has some free time and isn't chained to a work enviroment.
This is just my point of view based on my experiences, i can't tell you exactly what he means.


Kinda sounds like he's a bit depressed or anxious. Put yourself in his situation, you know it better than me, i can tell you that. :) Something i did notice about guys and girls (this is a generalization, which really depends on the individual), is that guys tend to want to step back from things to clear their mind and figure things out. It's most likely nothing against you if he wants time to think.





Advice: remember, there is ALWAYS enough hours in a day...unless you're lazy..with exceptions of course. hehe. He can do it! ^^ Encourage him, i'm sure he'll appreciate it. Alot of people don't like the place they're at in their life..he's no exception. it's natural to want more, and you don't run outta chances as easy as it may seem.





A relationship can be good or bad for you two...he's got a lot to figure out, could take awhile, which could effect your happiness and relationship.


It's a good question to ask a counselor (excuse my spelling). if you wanna be really serious about it, maybe consider it WITH him when he's got some time ^^ could be more helpful. Take care of yourself first ^^ Be happy
Well, I can't tell you EXACTLY what he means, but I can tell you what I think from my point of view. Basically what is being said is that he is very busy and confused. He's letting you know he's in a tough spot and is not at his best. But the beginning indicates he does want to see it if could work out, but that maybe it isn't the best time in his current situation.





What I would suggest to you would be choosing if you want to wait for him until he's in a better situation where his life is calm enough for him to be able to steadily date you and give you the attention you need and deserve. Or, if your unwilling to wait, let him deal with his troubles and pressures and wish the best for him.





Assuming you want to work things out and be with him, I would show him that you really do care about him by respecting what he's saying and showing him your willing to wait, which he will appreciate, and supporting him whenever he may need it. Whether it be if he needs to talk or he needs anything, any support you can give him, I'm more than sure would make him appriciate you and realize how great of a person he has in his life. This can only better your chances, that is.. if your willing to wait.





But also make sure that your looking out for yourself too, talk it over with him and tell him to assure you that he is interested in being with you in a later, non hectic time in his life. Because, you may want to be with him and even say you love him, but you shouldn't put your life on pause just for the chance to be in his. First and foremost is you and what is best for you, so don't be confused with a little patience and putting your life on hold.





Hope I helped! take care!
hes just tired and needs a break from things,


hes just overwhelmed. srry im not a dude?


best of luck.